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To let you know I had an e.mail via cancerbackup from a Cynthiaodily which I stupidly opened, it was rude and suggestive. She said she had seen my profile, so would see I'm a granny. Unbelieveable. Any how her e.mail is cynthiaodily @ yahoo.com she asked me to reply to this e.mail, not cancerbackup. Naturally I've junked her and unsafed her. I know you will all be thinking what a plonker, and in this case your right, in my defence, i'm new at this copomuter lark, so, hope I'm forgiven

Tags: Warning pervert reading our profiles

mistake

didn't know when i typed her e.mail it would appear in blue, appropriate, considering the content of the e.mail

Some people!

pheonix's picture

I also have had an email from someone supposedly through What Now and wondered why they were not contacting me on this site? I opened it but although it wasn't perverted it certainly wasn't someone I wanted to communicate with! How are these people able to get our home email addresses?? I didn't respond to it and just deleted it but I'm like you, you don't always know what you're opening up!
Take care

pheonix xxx

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Marsha's picture

They get your email address Pheonix from your whatnow profile, but they can't actaully "see" it, so unless you respond to emails from these nutters, they don't really know your email address. Just pass the emails on to Thomas and he'll evict them from the site.

Marsha xx

This is a Nigerian scammer

The incredible Sulk's picture

This is a Nigerian scammer yahoo ID, that has even had a mention on Oprah. Obviously searching for vunerable people to relive of some cash. Your email address will be one of millions havested electronically

e.mail pervert

thanks for advice Marsha, also pete for explanation as to why. I have reported the above. Pheonix, how are you, still got leaky legs my leak has stopped T.G. Lindaj xxx

'Fraid so!

pheonix's picture

But I'm SO glad your problem has improved lol!
Take care

pheonix xxx

scam e-mails

jo armitage's picture

Thats wierd, I got the same e-mail, she describes herself as beautiful and romantic (seems totaly inapropriate)

Who would say that about themselves!!! asked me not to reply through cancer backup.

Said she saw my profile and loved it !!!!

Thought it was strange.

Thanks for the info

Jo x

Spineless scammers

kazzy73's picture

It disgusts me to hear people out there try to scam those that are in need of genuine care and support. I find that if im not sure i have a genuine email from mac i log on here and check my inbox.

Jo we are all beautiful people on here. what we have on the inside shines on the outside.. we care, laugh and cry alongside others.

This is just someone who is not worth the trouble and definately a candidate for trial drugs!!! Then see how they feel about themselves...Play with fire so many times eventually you get burnt..(im ready and waiting with matches at hand for them)

Take it easy everyone and remember to have a wonderful christmas..

Best wishes

Kaz x

email

carolyn.t's picture

Hi,
I too have had a [what now] email sent but to reply to a personal email address which I did not open. I almost did but since reading your warning of perverts reading our profiles I'm glad i didn't. Thanx for bringing these people to our attention...especially for computer-email novices like myself :)
Take care...luv Carolyn

Clarifying the email thing

Thomas - admin's picture

hi there,

I just thought I'd clarify the position in terms of how that person (now banned) emailed you.
Anyone who has registered can email you through the site. To do so you go to someone's page and click Email next to their picture. However, your email address remains hidden. They are sending it through a form that doesn't tell them what your email address is. As long as you do not reply to the email they do not have your email address.
You can switch the email facility off. If you would prefer it if users could only send you private messages, you can go into your profile settings (Click 'Edit' on your profile page) and uncheck the box that says 'Personal Contact Form' then press submit at the bottom of the page. If you do that then users can only send you private messages and cannot send emails to your email address.
The main thing to remember is that if you do receive emails from the site...don't reply to them unless you are sure of the sender. Even if you are, you can always come back on the site and send them a private message instead of replying by email...that way your email address stays private.
I hope that helps
Thomas

Thanks for that

Ruthless's picture

I have had emails from two people on this site, and I was happy to reassure them and discuss by email, but I have done what you so kindly described.

The Personal Message vehicle is, I believe perfectly secure, so emails are hardly required, except from the site admin when it is something important. These are not blocked even if you block your email to everyone else.

I hope this is clear to everyone.

Rwth

What's wrong with these people?

kate jock's picture

Hi Linda and thanks for the warning. God, what is wrong with these people? Let's hope you hear no more from the wicked bitch!, I'm not thinking you're a "plonker", cos I would probably have done the same thing - well, I KNOW I would've done the same thing, because like you, I'm no whizz kid with technology, lol lotsa love kate xxxxxxxxx

techno plonker

Thanks to all for replying especially you katejock as i did feel that i was an idiot. I'm taking the advice thomas has given and am about to block e.mails Ruthless is right p.ms. are perfectly adequate in our club Best Vibes to you all. lindaj

more of the same for me

tippelvis's picture

I received my little email from the cynthia123 from here using another email address [email address removed]. And she is still on the site....under...all about cynthia 123...

trcksters

the same cynthia who e.mailed me is still registered on this site under cynthia 123

another address to keep in mind

adintnah's picture

I recd an email via my email address redirected from What now. from [email address removed] asking me for a relationship (lucky me you might think)

a little off putting as it was tagged as a what now refferal. maybe it is all part of the same scamming system. but this person asked that i reply to thwir personal email address then they would exchange photo's and personal details. saying love has no barriers or borders.

Be aware friends this might be upsetting for some.

Keith

e.mail pervert

Many thanks for telling us about this disgusting person, I've passed it on to admin. By the way it's lovely to see a clear picture of some one. Best Vibes lindaj